Thank you for sharing what you think.
No need to apologize - really :). I understand why this frustrates you.
Up to now we were using the image title as identifier for the URL. We didn't want items with the same identifier, because we will have the same URL for both items. We have implemented UrlName and Title properties though, for exactly this reason - so that we can set the Url Name of the item independently of the Title. Therefore we need a small change to get the things work correctly.
Would you agree that this will be a better option?
I sent the suggestions. We will brainstorm on ideas here.
We haven't implemented it yet. Unfortunately we do not have an estimated time frame for it.
We are not able to put all the requests we have about Sitefinity. There are several thousands requests, new features and ideas :).
On the other hand, last night we synced some of the things you have suggested to PITS. You may see them now.